8 things no one told you about marriage... from Redbook Feb 7, 2014 9:27:26 GMT -6 Quote Select PostDeselect PostLink to PostMemberGive GiftBack to Top Post by Blush on Feb 7, 2014 9:27:26 GMT -6 Do you find these to be true? /advice/no-one-tells-marriage" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.redbookmag.com/love-/advice/no-one-tells-marriage1. You will look at the person lying next to you and wonder, Is this it? Forever? 2. You'll work harder than you ever imagined.3. You will sometimes go to bed mad (and maybe even wake up madder). 4. You will go without — sometimes for a long time — and that's okay. 5. Getting your way is usually not as important as finding a way to work together.6. A great marriage doesn't mean no conflict; it simply means a couple keeps trying to get it right. 7. You'll realize that you can only change yourself. 8. As you face your fears and insecurities, you will find out what you're really made of. The last 3 are my faves.